Let go

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Letting you go 

           Is a part of loving you❤️

I'm currently in the phase of letting things go, I am tired of using all my strength to make things stay but failed to realize that it only hurts me more. I'm tired of explaining, I'm tired of dragging the people who wanted to leave, I'm tired of expecting and at the end, I'm tired of myself. It took me years to understand that making things stay only worsens the life for both. Leaving them breaks our hearts, but making them stay hurts everyone around us; we can't be selfish by hurting others for us to be with the person we like. It can be friendship, siblings, families or any relationship. 


Art of losing: not everything that approaches us is meant to be with us forever. Accepting the truth and strengthening our mental state is another level of maturity. Years back, I tried my best to keep my friend with me, but it seemed like she didn't want to stay. So I let her go and now I realized that things were much better. Initially, it did hurt me, but as the days rolled by, I understood the reality and made myself strong. As I have learned, accepting the fact that they won't be a part of our good life anymore is way more hurtful than letting them go. Don't express your love to someone who doesn't value it.


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