Admire with Gracia

 Words are a powerful instrument that can build a relationship or break years of a relationship. It can either be a sword that stabs people's hearts and makes them bleed, or it can be a needle that sews the broken pieces of a heart.  I regretted many times for letting out certain words, sometimes it led to embarrassing moments, but many other days, it made me face a serious conflict between my beloved people. The consequences because of the words depend on the usage of the right words.  Use the right words depending on the context. Think before you talk, pausing for a minute, realizing the environment, correcting the words, organizing the sentence and then speaking might prevent us from conflicts.  Sometimes, our talk might get misinterpreted, which leads to serious conflict between people. Proper communication with the right words and the right tone protects our talk from getting misinterpreted.  I believe that attempting to have a conversation while we are ang...

  Happy new year dear all!! I know it's late for New Year wishes, but it's my first blog this year. I'm happy to begin this year blogging with an amazing experience of learning and having fun during the process. How do you feel when you bring your long-time efforts to the light? The process holds a lot of discussions, variation in opinions, many strides of footprints, emptied bottles of energy drinks, uncontrollable laughs, pretending to be an artist while holding the paint brush, the limited volume of sweet melodies and heartfelt joy while doing things as friends and as a group. I uncovered various skills and knowledge within me. The transformation, the transition in our ideas and innovation grew bigger and wider every day. These days of learning through a cheerful process will definitely help me in various aspects of life. The Grand Exhibition of the English department exposes various kinds of art forms and brilliant ideas of literature. Every exhibit was unique in its wa...

  Be kind to others expecting nothing in return. Be kind to everyone even though they haven't done any good to you. Care for your enemies and be kind to them. Growing up, I was exposed to these values from my teachers and my parents. I firmly believe that we should care about others just like God cares about us.  I try to give my best to the people who reach out to me for help, but at times, when I feel no confidence in doing particular things, I politely refuse. When I didn't help someone who was in need, guilt took over me. Although my parents taught me to help others who are in need; they also taught me to be wise for whom we are helping as many people will take advantage of our kindness. I believe that kindness is a value that should be taught to every kid as soon as they attain 1 year. This world becomes more cruel every day. The one thing that makes us different from the monsters is the value that we are learning and teaching our generation.

  Letting you go             Is a part of loving you❤️ I'm currently in the phase of letting things go, I am tired of using all my strength to make things stay but failed to realize that it only hurts me more. I'm tired of explaining, I'm tired of dragging the people who wanted to leave, I'm tired of expecting and at the end, I'm tired of myself. It took me years to understand that making things stay only worsens the life for both. Leaving them breaks our hearts, but making them stay hurts everyone around us; we can't be selfish by hurting others for us to be with the person we like. It can be friendship, siblings, families or any relationship.  Art of losing: not everything that approaches us is meant to be with us forever. Accepting the truth and strengthening our mental state is another level of maturity. Years back, I tried my best to keep my friend with me, but it seemed like she didn't want to stay. So I let her go and now I realized th...

 I went to a nursery garden this evening, it had plenty of plants over the area but the colourful cactus captured my attention. It was pretty with a colourful flower on its top. Although it is not preferred by most of our Indian houses because of its prickery form but then I found it in a positive form. A Cactus can store up to 200 gallons of water, and it can also survive in harsh weather of desert. Amidst the tough climate, the cactus tries its best to stay strong and stable; any other plant cannot sustain itself except cactus and plants similar to that. This realization tells me to stay strong with hope amid trials. Maybe we are stuck between the dust storms but ignoring the sand fog in front of us and trying to concentrate on the clear path by staying positive.

  Who and what do you fear the most? The cockroach in your bedroom or your past traumas. Every human has fear of something that exists in their life. But to me, I was frightened about everything that I did; from talking to people, attempting new ideas of interest, transport, cooking, riding a scooter (everytime), exams, past, present, future, presentation... I'm quite honest enough to accept the truth that I'm a coward. Even as a kid or as a teenage girl, I never felt it strange to be a coward. It's because, Although I was scared of doing particular things, amidst my fear, I took part in that and tried my best. My poor heart tried it's best to take down my fear. From my perspective, being a coward isn't something you should be ashamed of; what it takes of you to make yourself a better person does matter here. I've heard that humans are scared of death; I believe that death is a part of our eternal life; we can't predict death, so instead of worrying and frig...

          Love yourself,  because no one loves you the way you do. In this one and a half years, I've learned a lot apart from our syllabus that can be taken to survive this beautiful life. But there are a few things that I'm still struggling to follow, that includes self-love. Our professors always insisted on loving ourselves as it was the first step to success; I couldn't take it as if something was stopping me from having a thought about self-love. Is it because of my insecurities? I'm not sure. At times, I was confused about why I couldn't even think of loving myself, and I was left with no answers.  Then my professor questioned, why do you love yourself? The first thought that came to me was, "If you don't love yourself, then who?" That's right, keeping our flaws aside along with our insecurities will result in loving ourselves. Not everyone is perfect here; everyone has their flaws to work on; instead of looking after the flaws, why don'...